China Doll
Sunday, February 26, 2006
I was thinking about the past. Then, I started to wonder what exactly is commitment. What does it refers to?
To some people commitment = sex, commitment = burden, commitment = deadend.. blah blah..
According to dictionary.com...
Commit:
- To do, perform, or perpetrate: commit a murder.
- To put in trust or charge; entrust: commit oneself to the care of a doctor; commit responsibilities to an assistant.
- To place officially in confinement or custody, as in a mental health facility.
- To consign for future use or reference or for preservation: commit the secret code to memory.
- To put into a place to be kept safe or to be disposed of.
- To make known the views of (oneself) on an issue: I never commit myself on such issues.
- To bind or obligate, as by a pledge: They were committed to follow orders.
- To refer (a legislative bill, for example) to a committee.
Commitment:
- The act or an instance of committing, especially:
- The act of referring a legislative bill to committee.
- Official consignment, as to a prison or mental health facility.
- A court order authorizing consignment to a prison.
- A pledge to do.
- Something pledged, especially an engagement by contract involving financial obligation.
- The state of being bound emotionally or intellectually to a course of action or to another person or persons: a deep commitment to liberal policies; a profound commitment to the family.
Oh course in this case we are talking about boy-girl relationship.
Theoretically, commitment is the state of being bound emotionally or intellectually to a course of action or another person/persons.
Practically, does commitment means meeting the other half ever day, knowing his/her every action, be aware of every little tiny weeny things that he/she does? No I don't think so.
To me, being commited is just being able to trust and put faith on the other half. And duh, love the other person whole heartedly. Don't necessary have to see each other everyday, dun have to call/message one another all day long. Maybe just a message or 2 per day to let me know u are alright.
Idiot. My thoughts are also half formed or rather DEFORMED and I don't know what the hell I am typing about. NBBB...
Last few sentence:
What commitment are u talkin about exactly? I am still wondering..